I have found over the years that it’s important to identify what you know and what you don’t - what you can do and what doesn’t come as easily.
Exhibit A: this past Shabbat, Florence took our daughter, Eliana out of town to a Bat Mitzvah. There I was, faced with flying solo with Aviva and Ezra. I knew exactly what I needed to do. I called in the reinforcements. My friend was gracious enough to help, and offered to take my youngest for various pieces of Shabbat, so I was able to attend community events, while also being Abba (father) to my own Leubitz community.
It was a perfect arrangement. I joined the Shabbos Project Block Party at Beth Jacob on Shabbat. This was a worldwide initiative that drew at least 1,000 people in Toco Hills - and I was in awe of how the community was gathered for such a positive and special Shabbat lunch. The message of strength of community was everywhere.
Sunday morning, the kids and I enjoyed the AJA Neon Dance Party with well over 80 people - many of whom were new families who came to tour our school. (We anticipate a full ECD this coming year!) The kids danced, played and had a ball. It was a very diverse crowd, and gave me yet another glimpse into the connection within our community (this view was a little more fluorescent and loud, though!)
My weekend concluded Sunday night with the L’chaim Event, celebrating 18 years for the Chabad of North Fulton. I was moved by the speakers’ stories of the growth of this Chabad community. Rabbi Minkowicz and his late wife, Rashi (z”l), built such an incredible community - that was crystal clear. I was taken aback by the diversity in the room, connecting and bonding as a community to honor the late Rashi and celebrate the growth of Chabad of North Fulton.
The overall theme of my weekend was one simple word: Community. It ran through my head constantly.
After my dear wife and daughter arrived safely home on Sunday night, I had time to reflect on the weekend. My conclusions:
1- Florence is amazing. (she never reads my emails, so tell her I wrote this, plz). Seriously. I did my best to pinch hit, but no one keeps the Leubitz family running like she does. She keeps it all moving like I operate this school, with systems and protocols and plans that work. I follow her plans, and it just works. But, for me to run the show without her...er... (changing the subject…)
2- Homes are like schools. My time flying solo and trying to run the house, started me thinking of the similarity to how homes and schools run, and then I thought about my leadership style at AJA. Just as I needed help to coordinate the weekend, I was reminded that no Head of School is the expert in all things. An effective HOS finds the best teachers, staff and administrators and lets them thrive in their own areas of excellence. We have some of the most talented and qualified staff here at AJA, I am grateful to have them here. I couldn’t do it without their expertise.
3- It’s all about Community. In Real Estate the key is “Location. Location. Location”. Using Creative Rabbinic License, I’d revise it to: “Community. Community. Community.” We need each other. We depend, trust and lean on each other, and we are each a part of a village. In this village, we each have a role. One of my roles is to challenge and empower the faculty and administrators here to work toward their full potential. Along those same lines, I challenge you.
We are incredibly fortunate to be a part of the AJA Community and the Atlanta Jewish Community. I do know, community doesn’t come to us by chance, we have to build it. And, I believe that our children deserve nothing less.