Parshat Toldot - Dog Day Afternoon

Written by Benyamin Cohen - (YA '93)

It was fourteen years ago this week that I adopted my first puppy. I had grown up deathly afraid of dogs (I’m not sure why), but as I got older I knew it was an irrational fear. So I slowly started hanging around dogs more and even dog-sat for a friend. I was finally ready to make the leap.

I went to the Atlanta Humane Society and picked out a four-month-old Chow-Retriever mix with a sweet disposition. I took him home and didn’t quite know what to do with him. For the first hour, we just sat there staring at each other, both new to this situation.

As puppies go, he was remarkably well-adjusted. He had no interest in chewing on the furniture and was, for the most part, already house trained. He instantly took to just hanging out on the couch with me and watching TV.

However, he was a little skittish in those early days. When he got scared – like when he heard loud thunder – he would go running into his crate. It was a safe zone for him and he knew nothing bad would happen to him in there. Eventually, he started voluntarily spending time in his crate just to chill out.

Believe it or not, the puppy’s behavior reminded me of something from this week’s Torah portion.

Among other things, this week's Torah portion of Toldot discusses the way in which Jacob and Esau grew up. There was the bookish Jacob (for some reason, I always pictured him playing chess) and there was the athletic Esau, out for a hunt.

The Torah states, in Genesis 25:27, that Jacob was a man of his tent, opting to stay in his comfort zone and not go out into the world. For a moment there, it reminded me of my dog’s behavior in those early days. Complacent to just remain in his crate, even when there were other things he could be doing. As we all know, Jacob eventually left his tent, his comfort zone, and went on to become the father of the Jewish people.

In our daily lives, the path of least resistance will always lead us to stay in our own comfort zones. Sure, that can mean being somewhat of a homebody (a group of which I am a charter member). But it can also be taken more metaphorically: choosing to lead an easy existence instead of opting to enter the harsh realities of the real world. Going down the simple paths, the ones that don't challenge us much, is not necessarily the most productive way to go through life.

Like Jacob in this week’s Torah portion, we have to leave the nest, spread our wings, and grow. We don't want to be the same people today as we will be 25 years from now. Jewish philosophy teaches us not be religiously stagnant, comparing our spiritual journey to climbing a ladder. The sages teach us that if we are not moving forward, then we are not moving at all.

After a short while, my puppy began venturing more and more out of his little area, slowly realizing that there is a whole world out there waiting for him. If only we could all learn that so quickly.


Benyamin Cohen graduated the Hebrew Academy of Atlanta (AJA Lower School) in 1988 and Yeshiva High School of Atlanta (AJA Upper School) in 1993. While in high school, he was the editor of the student newspaper. That experience led him to create Torah from Dixie (a newsletter and book about the weekly Bible portion), Jewsweek (one of the first online Jewish magazines) and to write “My Jesus Year,” a book about his experience visiting 52 churches. He is now a journalist and resides in Morgantown, West Virginia with his wife Elizabeth and two dogs.


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Parashat Toldot

Parashat Toldot

This was written by Shilo Creizman in the first grade with assistance from Morah Yifat Asulin.

Rivka knew that Yaakov, not Eisav, should receive the blessings from Yitzchak. To help make this happen, Rivka told Yaakov to pretend that he was Eisav by wearing hairy goat skins when he went to his father. Since Yitzchak was blind, he would think that Yaakov was Eisav based on how he felt. However, the way Eisav and Yaakov felt was not the only noticeable difference between them! They also spoke very differently. Yaakov said Hashem’s name often and spoke nicely and gently all the time, while Eisav never spoke in this manner.


Question: These blessings were extremely important! Why didn’t Rivka tell Yaakov to speak rudely like Eisav in addition to dressing up like him - this way Yitzchak would not get suspicious whether he was really Eisav or not?! In fact, when Yaakov went to Yitzchak, it was the way that Yaakov spoke which made Yitzchak unsure of whom he was talking to.

"הקול קול יעקב והידיים ידי עשו"

(the voice is the voice of Yaakov but the hands are the hands of Eisav)


Answer: Even if you dress like Eisav, you can NEVER speak disrespectfully like Eisav, even one time. One must act with Derech Eretz (the way of the land) even if it would mean losing these very important blessings! Think about it… what lesson(s) can you learn from this?


Shilo’s Lesson Learned: "I learned that you should always use nice, beautiful and kind words, and speak with Kavod to every person".   


Shabbat Shalom,

Shilo Creizman, First Grade





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Parsha - Chayei Sarah

Written by Danny Frankel, AJA Board President (YA '79)


In this week’s parsha, Chayei  Sarah, we find the following verse: “Avraham was old, well advanced in years and G-d had blessed Avraham with “Bakol” (everything)."

Upon an initial reading, this verse does not appear especially noteworthy as we know that Avraham was a wealthy, successful man with an abundance of material possessions. However, we know that Avraham, in many ways, had a difficult life. We are all very familiar with the tests that Avraham endured; at the end of last week’s parsha, we read about the binding of Isaac and at the beginning of this week’s parsha, Sarah dies and Avraham negotiates a deal so he can bury his wife.

So what does it mean that Avraham was blessed with everything?  Our commentators are also fascinated by this question and offer various explanations. 

Some argue that the wording coincides with Avraham setting the wheels in motion to arrange for his son to be married. Through this marriage, he would have grandchildren and his legacy would be assured. Others posit that Avraham literally had a daughter whose name was “Bakol.” Another opinion is that after Sarah’s death, Yishmael comes to offer comfort and family harmony is restored.

Rabbi Sacks offers a profound interpretation of this verse. Throughout the prior torah readings, G-d has promised Avraham a land and a multitude of offspring; and yet we see as the parsha begins that Avraham has no land and he has no progeny. However, in the course of this week’s parsha, Avraham purchases a small plot of land and he has set the path for Isaac to get married. While it may not have been equal to what he had envisioned when G-d made those grandiose promises, he could finally begin to see that his destiny would be fulfilled.

Rabbi Sacks then adds: Lao-Tzu, the Chinese sage, said that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. To that Judaism adds, “It is not for you to complete the work but neither are you free to desist from it” (Avot 2:16).

The story of Avraham is one of faith. His life was characterized by an unwavering belief and faith in G-d. This attribute enabled him to overcome life’s challenges and difficulties while remaining gracious and righteous.  When you have this type of faith, you are confident that G-d’s hands are in all aspects of your life – the good as well as the difficult. Avraham was “blessed in everything” because he had faith and was able to see G-d in everything that he experienced.

The message of faith, belief and optimism is incredibly fitting to share on this day when we mark the yahrtzeit of my father, Avraham Ephraim, who inspired a family and community living and personifying these qualities.





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Parshat Vayeira: Stepping Outside of our Tents

written by Alumni, Rebecca Stein (AJA ‘10)

Parshat Vayeira begins with God appearing to Abraham. To set some context, Abraham is recovering from his recent circumcision, which had occurred three days earlier according to Rabbi Chama ben Chanina. In an abrupt narrative turn, Abraham sees three men passing by his tent. He greets the men and welcomes them into his tent, where he and his wife Sarah prepare them a meal, letting them rest and wash their feet. We later learn that the guests are in fact angels disguised as men, as they predict that Sarah will give birth despite her old age, and they save Lot and his daughters from the destruction of Sodom.

I’ve learned about this episode a number of times throughout my Jewish day school years, and my teachers have always attached the story to its obvious messages: the values of hospitality, kindness to strangers...all essential lessons for kids to learn.

Rereading the story recently, I was struck by Abraham’s actions in a way that I hadn’t been before. In particular, it became clear to me that rather than hosting the passersby in a reactive manner, Abraham actively seeks them out, revealing his deep desire to offer a place of refuge for anyone in need.

This all becomes clear with a close read of the story.

The first verse of Vayeira reads: “Now the Lord appeared to him [Abraham] in the plains of Mamre, and he was sitting at the entrance of the tent when the day was hot” (Bereshit 18:1). According to Rashi, Abraham is purposely seated at the entrance of his tent “to see whether there were any passersby whom he would bring into his house.” In choosing this positioning, Abraham expresses his intention to seek strangers to take in.

The story continues as Abraham greets the men: “And he lifted his eyes and saw, and behold, three men were standing beside him, and he saw and he ran toward them from the entrance of the tent, and he prostrated himself to the ground” (18:2). Despite his condition (being on day three of his circumcision recovery), when Abraham sees the strangers, he runs toward them and prostrates himself. He expresses such an eagerness to greet these strangers that the reader might forget that Abraham is in a painful situation of his own.

Casting his pain aside, Abraham brings the strangers in with the utmost grace. Rashi comments on verse 18:2, noting that it mentions twice that Abraham saw. To explain this redundancy, Rashi says, “The first is to be understood according to its apparent meaning [i.e., and he saw], and the second means ‘understanding.’ He observed that they were standing in one place, and he understood that they did not wish to burden him. And although they knew that he would come out toward them, they stood in their place out of respect for him, to show him that they did not wish to trouble him, and he went out first and ran toward them.” Thus, Abraham runs toward the strangers, anticipating their desire to not be a burden and initiating the encounter by treating the strangers with dignity.

In just these first few verses of this week’s parsha, we discover an element of Abraham’s character that goes far beyond his hospitality and kindness. At a time when Abraham could have understandably been sitting in his tent recovering from what would have been a major procedure for someone his age, he places himself at the entrance of his tent, committed to taking in anyone seeking relief from the heat. Despite his own condition, he makes it his responsibility to provide for others what they are unable to provide for themselves, and to do so with profound respect and sensitivity.

On the heels of the election, it’s hard to ignore the relevance of this story to the current state of the world. Regardless of one’s political views, this is undoubtedly a time of much uncertainty for many groups, from those facing danger in other countries and seeking refuge here, to the many people living in America who are fearful for their own safety and well being. And for those who are not facing imminent threats, it might be easy to become complacent and to retreat into your comfortable and unthreatened worlds, especially as the election fades further into the past.  

But rather than hiding out in our tents and withdrawing into our own troubles as they arise, now is a time for us to learn from Abraham. Regardless of our personal situations, we must recognize that there are others facing great fear and danger and that we may be in the position to identify their needs and to protect them. We must step outside of our tents, as difficult as it may be for us, and make it our responsibility to reflect on the urgent needs of others and to offer a hand to those who are threatened by these turbulent times. And as Abraham did, we should do our best to anticipate the sensitivity and discomfort that might come along with being helped, with the ultimate goal of serving our fellow men and women as thoughtfully and respectfully as possible.



Rebecca Stein is a graduate of AJA Lower School (2006) and Upper School (2010). She holds a BA in Philosophy, Politics, and Economics (PPE) from the University of Pennsylvania and is now working at a business and technology think tank in New York City. 


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Parashat Vayera:  The Mitzvah of Hospitality

written by Odeya Lerer - 2nd grade (class of 2027)

This week's Parasha is Parashat Vayera.  The Parasha starts with story of Avraham sitting in the entrance of his tent waiting for guests.

Hashem sees how much Avraham wants to do a good deed, an important מצווה (mitzvah). Hashem then sends three angels to be the guests in Avraham’s tent. The three angels weren’t in white as we usually picture angels, but were dressed up as real people that had been walking for a long time.

Avraham calls them to come over to rest by the tent and have something to drink and to eat. Avraham welcomes them with water to wash from the way and some delicious food. Avraham asks Sarah, his wife to bake cake and bread and he himself prepares meat for the three men who seem to be regular guests. The Torah doesn’t tell us about feelings. The Torah doesn’t share with us how Avraham felt when he was doing this מצווה of הכנסת אורחים (mitzvah of hospitality). We learn about how Avraham was excited and happy with being able to do this מצווה by seeing the many actions he does - he greets them, gives water, sends the servant, shares the excitement with his wife and chooses the best part of the meat for them.  

While talking about the Parasha, I thought of an important question.

Avraham was 99 years old and just had his own ברית מילה (circumcision). How could it be that Avraham had the strength to welcome guests?

Rashi tells us that each מלאך (angel) had a specific mission. The first angel's mission was to heal and ease the pain from Avraham, so that Avraham will be able to do the mitzvah of הכנסת אורחים (hospitality).

This special story of Avraham and the מצווה of הכנסת אורחים teaches us two things, first, how to welcome guests and how to treat our guests. The second thing is the importance of this מצווה that Hashem brings upon us different opportunities to fulfil this special מצווה. Teaching us that each of our guests should be treated as the most important one.  



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The Original "Pledge"

November 11, 2016
10 Cheshvan 5777

In the fall of 1992, I arrived in New York City as a freshman at NYU, excited for all that the school had to offer.  My first experience in secular education (other than a summer stint in public school to learn how to type) was full of amazing experiences both academic and social.  Of the latter, my introduction into the Greek system was one of the most impactful.  While I didn’t join a fraternity during my first semester due to soccer (& academic) responsibilities, in the spring semester a few of my friends and I decided to take the plunge and pledge of the fraternity Alpha Epsilon Pi (AEPi).  Over the next few months, my mind and body were tested by the upper classmen “brothers” through many tests which were intended to test my faith and assure them that I was “brother” material. 

While the spring of 1993 was my “pledging”, Parshat Lech Lecha was Avraham (Abraham) Avinu’s “pledging”.  Hashem (G-d) puts Avraham through a series of ten tests which according to the Rambam (Avos 5:3), include:

1.       Hashem’s instruction to leave his homeland to be a stranger in the land of Canaan.

2.       A famine Avraham encounters Immediately upon his arrival in Canaan

3.       The capture of Sarah (Avraham’s wife) by the Mitzrim (Egyptians).

4.       Avraham’s battle of the four and five kings.

5.       Sarah’s barrenness.

6.       Avraham’s bris (self-circumcision) at an advanced age.

7.       Sarah’s capture by the king of Gerar

8.       Hashem’s instruction to Avraham to send Hagar away after having a child with her.

9.       The estrangement of Avraham’s son, Ishmael

10.   Hashem’s instruction to Avraham to sacrifice his son Yitzchak on an altar (the akaydah).

Not all of these tests are found in the Torah (bible) and in fact different commentators consider different tests to be counted amongst the ten (such as Avraham being thrown into the fiery furnace).  Regardless of which are the specific ten tests, one test is clearly mentioned in the Torah and that is the test of the akaydah, where Avraham is instructed by Hashem to take his beloved son, Yitzchak, to a remote mountain top and sacrifice him. 

Like many of the tests designed by my soon-to-be fraternity brothers in 1993, the test of the akaydah seemed to be without any true purpose other than to test Avraham’s will and faith, yet the test of the akaydah was different than the first nine tests.  While in the previous tests, Avraham was challenged through physical and emotional trials and tribulations, none of these tests were in direct conflict with what he had been taught by Hashem and that he had heretofore taught onto others.  On the contrary, the akaydah was a diametrically opposed message compared to all that Hashem had previously taught Avraham.  Recall that Hashem had promised Avraham a son (named Yitchak) who would carry on his lineage (hard to do if sacrificed).  Yet still despite all of that, Avraham was prepared to carry through with Hashem’s instructions.

The Ramban notes that the goal of Hashem’s “hazing” was to allow Avraham to realize his own potential. In fact all ‘tests’ found throughout the Torah, we are taught, are actually for the benefit of the ‘pledge.’ Other commentaries suggest that the tests publicize one’s piety and closeness to Hashem.  Ramban suggests the concluding words of the akaydah not as “now I know that you fear Hashem” (Bereshit 22:12), but rather as “now I have made it known that you fear Hashem.” Ramban homiletically changes the word yadati (I know) to hoda’ati (announced).

It is no coincidence as well that the akaydah was the tenth test as the #10, the Maharal points out, represents both kedusha (holiness) and completion. As to kedusha, there are 10 commandments, Yom Kippur is on the 10th day of the month of Tishrei, and the list goes on.  As to completion (wholeness rather than holiness), 10 is the first number which sees all the unit digits (0, 1, 2, 3, 4 etc.) used, 10 men comprise a minyan, and the world was created with 10 sayings (Avos 5:1) Given all of this, the tenth in a series of ten is special, unique and final.

Speaking of final, finally, it is not a coincidence that the Hebrew words for miracle “nes” is similar to the Hebrew word for test “nisayon”.  A miracle occurs when Hashem breaks out of His modus operendi of natural law and demonstrates His omnipotence. A test is when Hashem asks us to do the same.

May this, and all Shabbatot be one of peace and tranquility, quality time away from the hustle and bustle of our busy lives for us to focus on our families, our friends and that which Hashem has provided us.  Shabbat Shalom.

Josh Hartman graduated the Hebrew Academy of Atlanta (AJA Lower School) in 1986 and Yeshiva High School of Atlanta (AJA Upper School) in 1991.  He holds a BA in History and a BS in Chemistry from New York University and a Masters in Business Administration (MBA) from the Sy Syms School of Business at Yeshiva University.  Josh is the Executive Director at the Cardiovascular Research Foundation, an affiliate of Columbia University Medical Center in New York City.  He lives with his wife, Robyn, and their three children Bailey (15), Addison (15) and Carly (11) in Englewood, NJ.



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Parashat - Lech Lecha

written by Evyatar Asulin, AJA 7th Grader, who will become a Bar Mitzvah on November 12

November 12, 2016

11 Cheshvan 5777


In this week’s Parsha, Avraham is leaving his homeland and beginning a journey to an unknown land. This is one of the 10 tests Avraham was put through by Hashem. When you stop to think about it, it’s not really clear why this is considered one of the tests. After all, if Hashem personally asked you to move to Israel, would you not do it in a heartbeat? Well, I think I can answer this question from my personal experience.


In kind of the same way, just a little over a year ago, I left my home land and began my journey to another country. The only difference between me and Avraham, is that Avraham did not have to leave his favorite soccer team behind…


But seriously, how is sending Avraham to a new and exciting country, with the help of the Hashem be considered a challenge? Wouldn’t you like to be the chosen one and to follow Hashem to the promised land?


Let’s imagine for a brief moment, that you got an email from Hashem, inviting you to be one of the very first human beings to settle on Mars. It might go something like this:


“Dear Evyatar,

I have been watching you very closely and I’m excited to let you know that you have got what it takes! In the new place I am taking, you there will be no Kosher food (‘cause you’ll be the first cook!), no friends, no family, no soccer team (you do get to be the best individual soccer player in the country though…). Oh, and no internet (now you know your mom is gonna love it!)”


As exciting as it may sound  (it means no school, right?) I might rather stick with my friends and favorite soccer team.


I was actually told by my parents that I had to go with them to the US. Since I have such nice parents (as many of you know…) they asked me what I thought and said that I was not forced to go. I can tell you that it was the first time in my life that I really felt I was leaving something behind, a part of me that was not quite “moveable”. Now Avraham’s case is different and much more complicated. Imagine yourself going to a place with no Kosher food, not even a Starbucks! A place where you have to begin your life from scratch. This is where Avraham was going! But there is more, and Avraham’s job was not really clear until later on in the Parsha. Avraham is first introduced as a person that Hashem spoke with, with no particular reason for choosing him and that is strange. With Noach, for instance, the Torah states that he was exclusively righteous and that his job was to build the Ark, but what was Avraham’s job? Well, if we read through the Parsha, we can see that when Avraham actually fulfills Hashem’s command, he is taking along with him את הנפש אשר עשו בחרן. Onkelus translates that to “The souls that they have connected to Torah in Charan”.  Wasn’t the Torah given by Moshe Rabenu much later? What Torah was Avraham connecting people to? There are many answers out there for this question, but one resonated with me the most.  Avraham was a true Shaliach, messenger from Hashem, wherever he went. His inner essence was to take the good from everything and simply share it. That was his unique quality and that is what Hashem expected from him.


Avraham was able to identify the good in each person and situation and pass it on. But more so, not just telling somebody about it, but connecting the person to that awesomeness he had just learned about.


In this way Avraham found out about the awesomeness of Hashem, and connected people to it. That is exactly what Torah is about, and what Israel is about. I have been here for over a year now. I feel that I have been able to connect people around to the amazing things I had back home in Israel. I hope to do the same when I get back home and share some of the great stuff I learned here in Atlanta.


Shabbat Shalom!


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Parsha Noach - Margalit Lytton

written by: Margalit Lytton - AJA 7th grader 


There is a famous Rashi in this week’s parsha. The Torah says that Noach was an איש צדיק תמים היה בדורותיו  Noach was a righteous man; he was blameless in his generation.

What does this mean? What does it mean to say he was righteous in his generation? Rashi gives two explanations of what it means to be righteous specifically in his generation. He says it can be interpreted as שבח or גנאי, as praise of Noach or as criticism of him. According to Rashi it could be criticism because he was only considered a tzadik compared to the bad people of his generation. But compared to Avraham, Noach would not be considered such a great person. If you interpret in his generation as criticism, then the Torah is trying to tell us that he was only good compared to the people in his generation.

Rashi’s other interpretation is that the Torah is praising Noach by saying in his generation. According to this interpretation, if Noach was good in a bad generation then he would be even better if people around him were good.

I’d like to suggest that Noach was considered righteous in his generation because he resisted the peer pressure from the people around him. What was so good about him was that he did not do what everybody else did, but instead did what’s right. That is a really hard thing to do, to have all this negative peer pressure and still be good.

An example of Noach resisting peer pressure is when he is building the ark. Rashi says that God made it take a long time to build the ark, 120 years, in order to make the people around Noach ask him about what he was doing. He would then explain that Hashem is making a flood to kill them because they are so bad. Then the people would have a chance to do teshuvah – to repent. But maybe it wasn’t just for the sake of the other people, to make them do teshuva, but also for Noach himself, as a test to see if Noach could withstand the peer pressure.

Can you imagine the situation – all his neighbors coming to laugh at the ridiculous sight of Noach building an ark for some supposed future storm that nobody else believed in? And for so many years? It must have been very hard to withstand the pressure not to believe what God had told him. But he did it. He just kept building despite their skepticism.

Another place in this week’s parsha that we see the theme of peer pressure is in an entirely different story, the story of Migdal Bavel, The Tower of Babel. When the people were building Migdal Bavel the Torah describes them as safah echad udevarim achadim, one language and the same words.

Later it says that Hashem didn’t like Migdal Bavel. It doesn’t say exactly why other than the fact that they were all one and the same. I think that what God didn’t like was that everyone was being pressured to be the same and to do the same thing when actually each person is a separate person with different talents and ideas. So Hashem separated the people because they were all being pressured to do the same thing and He didn’t like that. He created us each special and He wants us not to get rid of this specialness by pretending we are all the same.

Hashem likes people who can stand up to peer pressure and not do what everyone else is doing. This is one reason Hashem saved Noach. Because Noach could withstand peer pressure and not do the same thing as everyone else. So, to return to Noach, how exactly did Noach withstand the pressure from his peers? What did he do that he could withstand peer pressure?

When the Torah is describing Noach it says את האלהים התהלך נח Noach walked with God. Maybe the reason Noach could withstand peer pressure was because he walked with God. He was very strong in himself and in his own idea of right and wrong because God was with him all the time. He knew what to do and what was right. God helped him know and so he did not listen to the people around him.

Peer pressure is a big issue for teenagers. Becoming a Bat mitzvah means taking responsibility for one’s relationship with God, and observing the halacha which literally means the way. Observing the halacha helps you withstand peer pressure because you walk in the way of God. Becoming a bat mitzvah will help me withstand peer pressure and strive to be a righteous person like Noach was.




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Parsha Noach - Elena Weissman (AJA '09)

Parshat Noach is a story of destruction, and one of redemption. We first read that Hashem brings about the flood to destroy the entire world because “the imagination of man’s heart is evil” (Breishit  6:5). Later on, after the flood, Hashem vows never to destroy the earth again for the exact same reason: “for the imagination of man’s heart is evil from his youth” (Breishit 8:21).

Rabbi Shai Held of Mechon Hadar asks: How can the same quality generate such polar reactions as wrath and compassion? What are the different lenses through which these qualities can be observed with such drastically different responses? 

In 6:5, the pasuk says that God “sees” the evil of mankind, and goes on to say that the evil goes on “Kol Hayom,” “throughout the day.” The reference to daytime is a common one in Judaism: it denotes a time in which the goodness and trueness of the world are clearly visible, when the metaphorical sun is shining. Evil ideations in this context are seen as intentional; mankind was seen as choosing negativity over clear goodness. 

The context of the 8:21 reference is quite different. God does not “see” the evil, but instead draws this conclusion after He “smells the sweet savour” of a sacrifice.” Judaism assigns special significance to the sense of smell, often as a bridge between the earthly and the divine – in Breishit, God created Adam by “breathing into his nostrils the soul of life;” we nourish our souls at Havdalah by smelling a fragrant spice; and Temple sacrifices are commonly described as generating a “reich nichoach” (a pleasant scent). 

After the flood, when the divine order of the world was in flux, the smell is what heralded the new promised life and soul for mankind. Whereas the antediluvian “seeing” of evil provides a face-value cause for wrath, the more spiritual sensing of the true nature of perceived evil is ultimately what saved mankind. The verse here goes on to say that mankind’s heart is evil “from his youth,” not just during the day as it says in the earlier verse. This reference to the innate nature of humanity’s evil is not Judaism’s version of original sin, but rather an opportunity to think about the lenses we use to make judgements about others. Whereas in 6:5 mankind’s evil ideations were defiant in the face of the whole, good truth, in 8:21 Hashem swaps the lens for a more forgiving context: it’s just how they’ve been acclimated. 

The same qualities which spark judgment of others and of ourselves can also lead us to compassion if we look at them through a different lens. Is this person in front of us choosing something we perceive as evil, or are they constrained by unjust institutions, mental illness, or some form of oppression? We’re told here to see the truth in the latter. 

The flood’s sidekick plotline in Parshat Noach is the Tower of Babel. The Babel story starts out with this context: “And the whole earth was of one language and one speech.” Rather than a show of unity, this is the Torah’s pretext for Hashem’s destruction of the people of Babel. R. Naftali Tzvi Yehudah Berlin (the Netziv) says that the builders envisioned the Tower of Babel as the center of a society which spanned the entire planet, which Hashem knew would decidedly lead to totalitarianism, and whose uniformity would spawn anonymity. In a religion in which words carry the weight of the world and in which speech is generative, a single language is a metaphor for a singular way of thinking and perceiving.

The lesson of God’s war with Babel is that an attack on diversity is an attack on the Jewish tenet that all people -- in their diverse, broken, and whole forms -- are created in God’s image. The story’s juxtaposition (Hi Rabbi Travis!) with humanity’s post-flood redemption demonstrates our imperative to not only replace judgment with mercy, but to acknowledge and value the vastly different narratives driving others’ behavior. While it’s true that we are communal, relational beings, we are also individuals who think and act for ourselves. The challenge is in creating a community that celebrates and fosters both the communal and the individual, rather than pegging them against each other. 

By using lenses of forgiveness and compassion with one another, we can see others in their best light, and uphold the promise that the earth never be destroyed again. I’m thankful to AJA for equipping and empowering me to see the wholeness of those around me, and to join and build communities with the same goal.

Elena Weissmann is a graduate of AJA Lower School (2005) and Upper School (2009). She holds a BA/MPP from the University of Virginia and currently works as a legal advocate in New York City



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Bereishit: Lessons Learned

Written by Josh Asherian, 7th Grader

My Bar Mitzvah parsha is Bereishit. This parsha mainly talks about the creation of the world and mankind. There are two important life lessons that we learn from this parsha that I would like to share with you today.

The first lesson is to take responsibility for your actions. Hashem tells Adam and Chava that they can eat from the fruit of any tree in the Garden of Eden except for the tree of good and knowledge. The serpent convinces Chava to eat and Chava then convinces Adam to eat. When Hashem asks Adam “Did you eat from the tree that I told you not to eat from?” Adam blames Chava and says “The woman that You gave me made me eat.” When Hashem asks Chava “What have you done?” Chava says “The serpent made me do it.” In the beginning of creation, Adam blames Chava and Chava blames the serpent. They are unable to take responsibility for eating the forbidden fruit. From here we learn that we should not blame the environment or our parents or anything else but be accountable for our actions.

The second lesson is the idea of education. Adam and Chava are thrown out of the Garden of Eden and Hashem puts keruvim and a revolving flaming sword at the entrance to keep them out. Keruvim here are angels of destruction but later on we learn that there are also keruvim on the Aron Kodesh which is placed in the Holy Mishkan, Tabernacle. The keruvim on the Aron have the face of a young child and are representative of the Holy Shchinah, Divine Presence. So are keruvim angels of destruction or are they Godly angels with faces of children?

They are both. From here we learn that if a child is properly raised, inspired, and educated in the ways of Torah and mitzvot, then that child will be a keruv, an angelic figure. But if a child is not raised to do good and just runs wild, then that child will be a destructive angel. I’d like to take this opportunity here to thank my parents and my teachers for teaching and inspiring me to always do good and to follow in the ways of the Torah so that I can be a positive figure in society.

Shabbat Shalom.





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D'vrei Torah - Students, Faculty & Alumni

Parsha Bereshit - Chanie Steinberg (YA'89)

  בְּרֵאשִׁית בָּרָא אֱלֹהִים אֵת הַשָּׁמַיִם וְאֵת הָאָרֶץ

“In the beginning, G-d created the heavens and the earth” (Genesis 1:1)chanie fam


Rashi, among other Torah commentators, ask why the Torah begins not with its first mitzvah (commandment,) the mitzvah of sanctifying the new month, but with the statement “In the beginning G‑d created the heavens and the earth.”  My favorite explanation is: With this opening statement, the Torah is establishing that it is not merely a rule book of commandments, or a list of things to do or not to do. It is G‑d’s blueprint for creation of the world-- our guide for realizing the purpose for which everything in heaven and earth was made. This gives us the proper framework to be able to carry out G-d’s mitzvot.

This lesson resonates with me, as I can draw a parallel to my experience as a student for fourteen years at AJA, and my childrens’ experience at AJA currently. Atlanta Jewish Academy provides a warm, nurturing, yet academically rigorous environment for students to learn about mitzvot and yiddishkeit. The teachers and staff work incredibly hard to make this so.

With my AJA education, I have been provided with the framework and tools to pursue a successful professional career, while maintaining my strong commitment to a Torah way of life.  

Let us pray that the new year will bring all of us, the AJA community, and the world around us, the inspiration to pursue our dreams, while staying grounded to our strong faith.

Chanie Wilson Steinberg is a 1984 graduate of Hebrew Academy (now AJA lower school) and a 1989 graduate of Yeshiva Atlanta (now AJA Upper School) She holds a BA in Biology summa cum laude from New York University, and an MD from Mount Sinai School of Medicine. She and her husband, Scott, have three children currently at AJA: Sophie (9th grade,) Jordan (6th grade) and Isabella (1st grade). Chanie’s brothers Joey and Benjy are also proud graduates of AJA. Chanie’s mother, Meta Miller, is a former teacher and ECD director at 





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Shabbat Chol Hamoed Sukkot

written by Rabbi Reuven Travis

Like the other pilgrimage holidays (Pesach and Shavuot), the holiday we observe this week, Sukkot, has both ritual and agriculture aspects. While we are very familiar with the former (including things such as sitting in the sukkah, waving the lulav and etrog, and the hoshanah circuits we make during our morning davening), the latter aspect of the chag is made abundantly clear in Shmot (23:16), where the Torah refers to it as chag ha-asif, “the festival of the ingathering.”

Yet, in many ways, Sukkot is actually two holidays rolled into one. The Torah makes clear that chag ha-asif is a harvest festival, as it says: “At the end of the year when you gather in your labors out of the field,” (Shmot 23:16) and “...after you have gathered in from your threshing-floor and from your winepress.” (Devarim 16:13) The theological import of the holiday is made equally clear in the Torah, which defines the chag as a festival of commemoration of the Exodus. “You shall dwell in sukkot seven days ... so that your generations shall know that I caused the children of Israel to dwell in sukkot when I brought them out of the land of Egypt.” (Vayikra 23:42–43)

Herein lies a contradiction. Everywhere else the Torah says that while in the wilderness Bnei Yisrael dwelt in tents (see, for example, Shmot 16:16, 33:8, 10; BeMidbar 11:10, 16:27, 24:5; Devarim 1:27, 5:27). So did they live in sukkot or in tents? Sifra (the halakhic midrash on Vayikra) records a rabbinic debate on this very topic. (It is mentioned in the Talmud also, but there the protagonists are switched [Sukkot 11b].)

R. Eliezer says: They were real sukkot. R. Akiba says: The sukkot were the clouds of glory. (Sifra Emor 17:11 [103a–b])

R. Akiba’s argument for his belief was apparently quite convincing because his interpretation became accepted as the majority rabbinic interpretation and is found in the targums (the Aramaic translations of the Torah) and in many later writings. R. Akiba’s idea of sukkot as metaphorical shelters provided by God for the people’s protection most likely prevailed because he also argued that sukkot are not built in the desert; they are built in agricultural fields for the protection of the workers and their animals. They were constructed of the kind of materials one would expect to find in an agricultural setting — tree branches, wood, straw, etc. Such materials are not found in the desert. Furthermore, the Bible has ample descriptions of the uses of a sukkah as a metaphorical shelter. Consider these few examples:

And God will create over all Mount Zion ... a cloud ... [which] shall serve as a sukkah for shade from heat by day and for shelter and protection against storm and rain. (Isaiah 4:5–6)

He made darkness His screen; dark thunder-heads, dense clouds of the sky were His sukkah round about him. (Tehillim 18:11–12)

Can one, indeed, contemplate the expanse of clouds, the thunderings from His sukkah? (Job 36:29)

Except for that single reference from Vayikra cited above, the exodus narrative never mentions sukkot, but it is replete with references to clouds — the pillar of cloud that guided Bnei Yisrael in the desert; the cloud over Mt. Sinai; the cloud inside the Mishkan from which God speaks to Moses; the cloud above the tent of meeting where God resides — there are many references to these clouds in the last four books of the Torah. And where does the pillar of cloud first appear to the Israelites? In a place called Sukkot!

“And they journeyed from Sukkot and they camped at Ethom, in the edge of the wilderness and the Lord went before them by day in a pillar of cloud to lead them in their way, and by night in a pillar of fire, to give light to them....” (Shmot 13:20–21)

This begs the question. When did the custom of dwelling in sukkot as a matter of ritual law begin to be observed? Some argue that we can date this ritual to the period when the Jews returned to their homeland from the Babylonian exile. Upon their return, the Jews returned to Jerusalem, where they celebrated Sukkot by making and dwelling in sukkot. Nehemiah reported of this practice: “The Israelites had not done so from the days of Joshua.” (8:17) Since the book of Joshua is silent on the matter of dwelling in sukkot, one could argue that this mitzvah had its origins during the return from exile.

There is one last point worth reflecting upon regarding the mitzvah of dwelling in sukkot. It is unique and stands out among all of the 613 mitzvot. The mitzvah simply states: “You shall dwell in sukkot seven days...” (Vayikra 23:42) This is a unique mitzvah because nothing more is required of a person other than being in a place. To fulfill the mitzvah, one simply enters the sukkah and remains there, living in the space as if it were one’s home. You need not do anything else. For the seven days of the holiday, one is totally surrounded by the mitzvah.

This concept of being totally surrounded by the mitzvah is an apt metaphor for our school. As Rabbi Leubitz has challenged us all to reimagine our school, those of us privileged to teach your children limudei kodesh are doing just that by daily seeking ways to install more kedusha, more holiness, into the lives of your children. We teach and model for them ways to fulfill mitzvot, from the seemingly most mundane (washing of hands before eating a meal) to the most challenging of properly honoring our fathers and mothers. (Talmud Yerushalmi, Peah I:1)

This week, our task might be a bit easier as we sit in our sukkot with our students, but it is also a time when we are extraordinarily mindful of the task you have entrusted us with. And we are just as grateful for the trust you show by sharing your children with us and allowing us to teach them.

Chag sameyach to all.

Rabbi Reuven Travis


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Megillat Kohelet

written by Ella Goldstein, who will become a Bat Mitzvah on 10/22


Moed tov. For my Bat Mitzvah, I chose to read Megillat Kohelet. Kohelet was written by King Shlomo, or Solomon, late in his life. He had become aware of the mistakes he made throughout his life and wrote about them, I think, to help people live meaningful lives. His first two chapters are particularly depressing. He describes how everything in the world meant nothing to him. Or, In 12 year old terms, his life was a fail. In פרק א פסוק ד it states:

דור הלך ודור בא והארץ לעולם עמדת “  "a generation comes and generation goes but the world keeps going on and on."

In פסוק ט he says for the first of many times  ואין כל חדש תחת השמש , there is nothing new under the sun.

In פרק ב,  Shlomo thinks that by buying more items, he will be happier - he discusses building houses, planting vineyards and orchards with all types of trees, and he owned more than all of his family in Jerusalem. פסוק י:  וכל אשר שאלו עיני לא אצלתי מהם לא מנעתי את לבי מכל שמחה “Whatever my eyes desired I did not deny them, I did not deprive myself of any kind of joy.”  but, in pasuk יא he concludes again that “all was futile … and there is no real profit under the sun.” Again, we realize that he describes his life as a fail.

In perek gimmel, however, I found him to be more optimistic. This is the chapter that the 1960s rock band, the Byrds, made famous with their song Turn, Turn Turn.  “everything has its season, and there is a time for everything under the heaven:  a time to be born and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to uproot the planted; a time to kill and a time to heal; a time to wreck, and a time to build ….” and so on.  I find this more optimistic because it shows that while there are bad things in life, there also are good things.  So as one goes through bad times, you know to think about the good that you had and the good that will be ahead.  

In the remaining perakim, Shlomo continues to consider how to find meaning in life.  He tries a lot of things, but in the end he says the way to find true meaning is to believe in (G-d) and to follow his commandments.  He concludes in perek yud bet, pasuk yud gimmel אֶת הָאֱלֹקים יְרָא וְאֶת מִצְוֹתָיו שְׁמוֹר כִּי זֶה כָּל הָאָדָם

“Fear G-d and keep his commandments, because this applies to every person.”  

So, when I reached the end, I realized at least one reason why we read this book during this high holiday season - right after we pray for a happy, healthy and peaceful new year and for atonement for our sins --  it’s a reminder that to have a meaningful life we must follow God's commandments.

But, I also learned more as I learned Kohelet -

First, when reading Shlomo Hamelech complaining and complaining, I thought it’s easy to complain.  We can all easily complain If you have a bad teacher, or a bad referee, or big homework assignment. We could think, why is this all  happening to me?  But then , Kohelet teaches us that we need everything in moderation -- he was the richest person, with the most things a person could have, and he was not happy.  And in perek zayin, pasuk alef he says something I thought was interesting -  "טוֹב שֵׁם מִשֶּׁמֶן" - the most important thing isn’t the possessions or being famous, but rather to have a good name.  This pasuk really made me think - it’s not what you have, it’s who you are -- how you act, what you do and say that really matters.   

As I read this megillah with the many sad entries, I also thought how odd to read this book on sukkot.  After all,   on the holiday of sukkot we have a commandment to be happy -- shouldn’t we read something totally happy? Why have a reading where someone is struggling in life?  I think it is because it’s easy to be happy when all is good in the world.  When everything's going right, of course we are happy.  Like when AJA crushes another volleyball team and after, we all go out for ice cream. But, what Kohelet teaches is even when there are challenges - and in life we ALL have challenges - we still have a commandment to be happy.  There is a war in Syria now, there are hungry families, and people suffering from horrible diseases that doctors still cannot cure.  And, even with all this darkness, Kohelet is telling us there are positive times, and we need to find the good, we need to try and heal, we need to make peace in ways that we can and by doing that we will be happy.  

I have tried to find the good with my bat mitzvah learning.  First, I chose to challenge myself by learning to read the megillah.  I wanted to do something longer than the mincha torah reading and learn a new text.  I can now say that I truly did not understand quite how challenging the task was when I said this is what I wanted to do, but I am so happy that I stuck with it and learned as much as I did.  

Second,  I also chose to have a bat mitzvah project where I could help other children in some small way.  I have collected books for Page Turners Make Great Learners and I will be reading to kindergarten classes and distributing the books I’ve collected to their schools so that children who otherwise don’t have access to books can read.

So what I learned from this almost full year of learning the megillah, I think will stick with me forever.  First, I liked learning the trope - the musical notes - and found it amazing how much faster it was for me to learn a perek at the end of the year than when I started. I hope to be able to continue learning and reading megillah.  But also, I want to remember many of the messages of kohelet and Sukkot.  Life is not easy - there are good and bad things that happen. Some things we can control and try and make better, and some things we can’t control.  For those things, we just have to make the best of them. But to find more meaning and ultimately happiness, we follow the mitzvot.   

Chag Sameach and Shabbat Shalom!

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Teshuvah, Tefillah and Tzedakah

written by: Shaun Regenbaum, AJA Upper School 


October 14, 2016
12 Tishrei 5777


There are a couple phrases we started saying these past couple weeks and will continue to say for some time. One of them is “Teshuvah, Tefillah and Tzedakah.” These are the things that will “revert the evil decree”. It is a confusing concept, but we will dissect it. This phrase in particular is extremely important for us to understand as it is the goal of the Chagim. We say a lot about how amazing H-shem is, about how merciful He is, about how omniscient He is, and how nothing is hidden from Him, but these praises all lead up to this phrase, this cry to H-shem. When looking from a purely literal point of view, they are quite shallow: “Repentance, Prayer, and Charity”. They are admirable, but these three actions seem oddly specific for getting ready for a new year, a better year.

In Pirkei Avot, the second Mishnah, we learn from a man named Shimon Hatzadik. He was the last member of the Anshei Knesset Hagedolah, the men of the great assembly, a group of geniuses who led the Jewish people in the first century. They rejuvenated Judaism to thousands of assimilating Jews. They brought meaning to Jews who were swaying off the path of their ancestors. They were great people, and Shimon Hatzadik, perhaps the greatest of them all stated: “On three things the world stands: On Torah, On Avodah, and on Gemilut Chasadim.” They literally mean “On Torah, On Work, and on Acts of Kindness.” These three pillars established by Shimon Hatzadik strongly resemble the three end goals we mention in our Davening: “Teshuvah, Tefillah, and Tzedakah.” When we compare these lists to each other, an amazing realization can occur.

Teshuvah when translated means returning. Returning to what? Well, as Shimon Hatzadik tells us, Torah. We are returning to the main goals of life, those that align themselves with Torah. When we learn Torah, we learn how to live our lives, we learn our core values, and we learn the amazing depth of our world. We must return to the fundamentals of Torah, to the way of thinking presented by Torah, to the purpose of life taught by Torah. That is the first goal for these upcoming weeks: returning to the Torah, the most important part of Judaism.

Tefillah can literally mean debating or petitioning for yourself or for another. Debate and petitions involve two sides. One side has a goal, a hope to leave with something valuable. The other side has the ability to provide. In our case we are asking G-d, our father and provider for something. But what is it we are asking for? What is our Tefillah for?

We are asking for work, which is a surprising thing to ask for. Who wants more work, more things to worry about? Avodah (work) involves putting forth effort to receive the product of the work. We are not simply asking for work, but for opportunities to accomplish goals in life, specifically goals based on the Torah. We are asking H-shem for purpose and a path to meaningful accomplishment in life. We are arguing that the upcoming year not be a futile one, but a year full of achievement and success - a year where we do not waste our time like we did last year.  Our right to Avodah changes us and creates personal meaning in our own lives. This is the second goal: to present our case to G-d that this upcoming year we deserve the right to learn, to understand, to achieve, to grow, and to succeed in Torah and in life.

Finally we have Tzedakah directly translated as righteousness or truth. This is a tough one to understand. The previous two aspects are personal. Teshuvah and Tefillah get us ready for the upcoming year with a strong Torah-based foundation, and a clear goal to achieve in the upcoming year, but righteousness involves more than just ourselves. A single man by himself in the world can never be righteous. Adam before Chava was not righteous, he only became righteous when someone else entered his life. The same applies for the idea of truth. If only one idea exists, can it be true? Well no, it is neither true nor false, it simply exists. Truth can only exist when we can compare it to alternatives. Tzedakah cannot exist by itself, it needs something or someone else. But why does Tzedakah need more than one person, compared to Torah and Teshuvah?

When we do Avodah we change ourselves, we grow and learn and all these wonderful things, we affect ourselves, but something else happens, too. We also have an outward impact. Tzedakah is the outward effect of Avodah. Shimon Hatzadik stated both Avodah and Gemilut Chasadim, acts of kindness, meaning that the personal effects of our actions are critical, but we must make sure to have a positive outward effect too. With Tzedakah we are hoping to create change in our surroundings, as well as in ourselves. We accomplish this through acts of kindness, through charity, through being a teacher and mentor. This is the third goal of the upcoming weeks and year, to be a positive influence on your environment, to have beneficial impact on the lives of others, to improve your society, and to achieve the status of a Tzadik.

These three things: Teshuva, Tefillah, and Tzedakah will remove all the negatives of the previous year, the evil decrees. If we promise to return to the fundamentals of Torah, to have clear purpose and work for our growth, and to have positive impact on the world around us this upcoming year, it will be the best yet. Shimon Hatzadik, someone who made impact on his surroundings, assures us that these commitments will provide a life full of success and meaning. So with that I wish you all a G’mar Chatima Tova, an assurance for good life in the coming year.





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Haazinu and Succos: Commanded to Be Happy

written by: Matthew Minsk, 8th Grader

October 14, 2016
12 Tishrei 5777


This week’s parsha is Parshat Haazinu. Except for the very end, the entire parsha is a song, one of the ten Songs that will be composed in the history of Creation. The ten songs include songs such as Az Yashir, the song at the splitting of the sea, the song of Channah when she has her child, Shmuel (which we read as the haftarah on Rosh Hashanah) and Shir Hashirim, Song of Songs, composed by King Solomon and one of the five megillot, which we read on Pesach.

Overall, all of these songs are happy and are in thanks to Hashem. However, Haazinu is not happy. Half of the song of Haazinu is tragic, a depiction of what will happen when the people don’t follow Hashem’s commands and are then sent into Exile. The first part of the Song tells of the amazing things Am Yisrael will benefit from in the land of Israel. But then the second part tells of how they will become corrupt, and how they will be exiled. This part begins with the phrase וישמן ישרון Yeshurun will become fat, which comes directly after a verse telling how the nation will be rich in food. It talks about the goodness of their food, but then it becomes bad, and they become fat.

When he was king, it is said Solomon collected a tremendous wealth, so much that it would tempt anyone to become greedy and jealous and turn away from G-d. He believed he wouldn’t be tempted because he was on such a high spiritual level. In fact, he was right. However, after his death, his sons couldn’t resist the temptations, which led to a civil war and a split of the Kingdoms of Judea and Israel. A couple hundred years later, this lack of unity led to Assyria dispersing the Ten Tribes and Babylon destroying the Beit HaMikdash, and other consequences foretold later in this parsha.

Next week is Succos, called Z’man Simchaseinu, the time of our happiness. But yet on Shabbas Chol HaMoed, we will read Koheles, which is written by Solomon and is just utter sadness and despair, saying there is no hope. The complete opposite of Z’man Simchaseinu. The Rabbis teach us we read Koheles on Succos so that we see that even in our happiness, we can’t be too happy. We are still in exile.

This does not mean we shouldn’t be happy, that we shouldn’t feast with the good things Hashem gave us. Because we should. Not even an hour after we read Koheles, in Mussaf, we still call Succos a time of happiness. We are still commanded to be happy, even while reading Koheles.

Last week, we had Tzom Gedaliah, the fast of Gedaliah. What is the purpose of being hungry on fast days? One purpose is to remind us all is not right, we are in exile, which is not where we need to be. We need to work for the Ultimate Redemption.

We bide our time, keeping our Jewish identity in schools such as AJA, and try to do mitzvot until Hashem decides the time is right. We work for that time, when we will have an opportunity to be in the Land of Israel and use what He gave us in the right way.

Then, maybe instead of having the futility in Koheles bring us down in our time of happiness, we can rejoice even more, and read the tenth song. This is the song that hasn’t been written yet, the song of the exiled being redeemed, the Song of the Mashiach.

Until then, Shabbat Shalom and Chag Sameach!





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Parashat Yayelech: Walking in the Ways of Hashem

written by: Debbie Bornstein, Director of Judaic Studies EC-8

October 7, 2016
5 Tishrei 5777

וַיֵּ֖לֶךְ משֶׁ֑ה וַיְדַבֵּ֛ר אֶת־הַדְּבָרִ֥ים הָאֵ֖לֶּה אֶל־כָּל־יִשְׂרָאֵֽל:

And Moshe went, and he spoke the following words to all Israel.

Where did Moshe go?

Ramban explains that Moshe went to each shevet’s (tribe's) camp, as a sign of kavod (honor/respect), asking their permission before he left them for the last time.

However, Kli Yakar explores this expression on a deeper level, comparing this use of ‘vayelech’ with the other times that it is used in our parsha. The shoresh ‘halach’ appears three times in Vayelech. The first is here, ‘וַיֵּ֖לֶךְ משֶׁ֑ה’ (Devarim 31:6) when Moshe goes to talk to Bnei Yisrael, the second is in relation to Yehoshua’s appointment as Moshe’s successor – וַֽה' ה֣וּא הַֽהֹלֵ֣ךְ לְפָנֶ֗יךָ ה֚וּא יִֽהְיֶ֣ה עִמָּ֔ךְ (Devarim 31:8) and the third being where Bnei Yisrael are told that Hashem will guide them - “כִּ֣י ה' אֱלֹהֶ֗יךָ ה֚וּא הַֽהֹלֵ֣ךְ עִמָּ֔ךְ לֹ֥א יַרְפְּךָ֖ וְלֹ֥א יַֽעַזְבֶֽךָּ” (Devarim 31:6).

The use of the shoresh ‘הלך’ has different connotations in these three instances. When used regarding Bnei Yisrael, Hashem is portrayed as walking with the people. In relation to Yehoshua, Hashem walks before him (ie. Yehoshua follows Hashem). Concerning Moshe, he simply ‘walks’ and is not accompanied.

From this comparison, we see that the verb ‘halach’ implies the status of one’s relationship with Hashem. The Kli Yakar illustrates this further with use of a mashal. Moshe, on the highest level, is like the sun – he radiates independently and ‘vayelech’ – he walks on his own and does not need to be accompanied. Yehoshua is compared to the moon, who gives light only as a reflection of the sun, but still lights up the night sky. Contrastingly, Bnei Yisrael need full guidance – Hashem walks with them, and they are like the stars, which light up the sky, but in a scattered and disjointed fashion. Together, all three types of luminaries serve to provide the earth with light throughout time.

Throughout the Torah we see many times that the verb, halach, is used as a reference to one's relationship with Hashem. This idea stems from a passuk in Parashat Eikev: מָה ה' אֱלֹהֶיךָ, שֹׁאֵל מֵעִמָּךְ:...לָלֶכֶת בְּכָל-דְּרָכָיו...

What does Hashem want from us? To walk in His ways.

The ability to walk is uniquely human. Yechezkel prophesies about the angels that ‘Ragleihem regel yeshara’ (Yechezkel 1:7)– ‘their leg is a straight foot’ – they cannot move from where they are. Man, conversely, has two legs and thus has the ability to move and change, progress and grow.

We are now in the days in between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur , where we particularly want to make use of this special ability to change and do Teshuva. As it is written about the shofar at Matan Torah ‘וַיְהִי קוֹל הַשֹּׁפָר, הוֹלֵךְ וְחָזֵק מְאֹד (Shemot 19:19)– the sound of the shofar went and became stronger’, we also want to take advantage of our ability and become stronger as individuals and as a nation.

G'mar Chatima Tova!





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Ki Tavo: Giving Appreciation

written by Natalie Newman - 6th grade

September 23, 2016
20 Elul 5776

What is the best way to give appreciation?

In this week's parsha we see how the Jewish people were required to bring the first fruits to the Temple בית המקדש to demonstrate their gratitude towards Hashem 'ה.

וְלָֽקַחְתָּ֞ מֵֽרֵאשִׁ֣ית | כָּל־פְּרִ֣י הָֽאֲדָמָ֗ה אֲשֶׁ֨ר תָּבִ֧יא מֵֽאַרְצְךָ֛ אֲשֶׁ֨ר ה' אֱלֹקיךָ נֹתֵ֥ן לָ֖ךְ וְשַׂמְתָּ֣ בַטֶּ֑נֶא וְהָֽלַכְתָּ֙ אֶל־הַמָּק֔וֹם אֲשֶׁ֤ר יִבְחַר֙ ה' אֱלֹקיךָ לְשַׁכֵּ֥ן שְׁמ֖וֹ שָֽׁם:

You shall take of the first of all the fruit of the ground, which you will bring from your land, which Hashem, your God, is giving you. And you shall put [them] into a basket and go to the place which Hashem, your God, will choose to have His Name dwell there.

In ancient times when the Beit Hamikdash (Temple) was still standing, the B’nai Yisrael (sons of Israel) were commanded to show their appreciation to Hashem by doing a number of things.

  1. They needed to bring the Bikurim (first fruits) to the Beit Hamikdash, which often meant weeks of travel to Jerusalem.  

  2. When the Bikurim were brought there, the owner needed to say a special Tefillah (prayer) of thanks, reflecting on how Hashem took the Jewish nation out of Egypt.

The Tefillah starts in the singular, changes to the plural, and then back to the singular, in order to indicate the individual's personal connection to the history of the nation. This memory of the exodus is one we share as a nation. One must not simply offer their thanks but must live with gratitude, as well.

In our everyday lives, we have many reasons to offer thanks. Sometimes it is on those special occasions when we recognize that in order to truly appreciate the richness in our lives, we must reflect on how we got to that point.

When I found out I was going to New York to visit family, I was the most happy I have ever been. I was going to meet my new baby cousin! I kept thanking my parents for the trip. Clearly this was a reason to be thankful but when I got to New York it meant so much. Saying “thank you” to my parents meant so much more to me, because then I better understood what it took to get me there.

In order to truly have appreciation, one needs to enter.  
Reflect on the good and be “in the moment”!

Shabbat Shalom.




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Ki Teitzei - Gratitude

Written by: Jonah Gordon, AJA 7th grader who becomes a Bar Mitzvah on 9/17/16

September 16, 2016

13 Elul 5776

Gratitude is a central theme in my bar mitzvah parsha, פרשת כי־תצא. The many mitzvot in my parsha include שלוח הקן, sending the mother bird away from her nest.

The mother bird sits on her eggs or with the young birds. If a Jew wants to take the birds or the eggs, the person must first chase the mother bird away if she is there. If she returns the person must chase her away again. The person may not take the eggs or the young birds from the nest while she is there. Interestingly, this mitzvah only applies to kosher, wild birds. It does not apply to ducks or hens.

The torah doesn’t tell us the reason for this mitzvah, but two possible explanations include, showing mercy to the mother bird, or avoiding unnecessary emotional pain to the motherbird.

Like all other mitzvot we don’t really need a reason to keep it aside from the fact that Hashem gave us the mitzvah. But, for שלוח הקן, the reward is specifically mentioned in the Torah. The Torah states that you will live a good, long life if you shoo away the motherbird. The question that may grab your attention is, what other mitzvah in the Torah offers one a long life? The answer is the fifth commandment, which is honoring your parents.

So I thought to myself, which mitzvah is harder. Honoring your parents or sending away the motherbird? I have never had to send away a motherbird, so that mitzvah is not very hard to keep. On the other hand, honoring your parents is a mitzvah that is done daily.

How could the Torah offer the same reward for an easy and a hard mitzvah? It doesn’t seem logical. Well, who am I to say that some mitzvot are more valuable than others. This shows us that we should not do a mitzvah for the reward. We should do it because Hashem told us to.

Which people in the world should we have the greatest sense of gratitude towards? The people without whom we wouldn’t exist, and who care for our every need from the time we are born into adulthood. These people are our parents. Therefore, it makes sense why we honor and respect our parents. The general idea of being thankful is central to being a Jew and a good human being. On a daily basis in our prayers, we thank Hashem for everything.




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Ki Teitzei: Respect and Sensitivity

Written by: Raina Grosswald, AJA 8th grader who becomes a Bat Mitzvah on 9/17/16


September 16, 2016
13 Elul 5776

In this week's parsha, Ki Tavo, Moshe begins to instruct B’nei Yisrael what to do as they settle in the land Hashem has given them. After their crops grow, they are to bring the first ripened fruits, called bikkurim, to the Temple. This makes perfect sense as I am the first fruit of my parents, and they declared their gratitude to Hashem like B’nei Yisrael had to. But wait! That happens to be next week’s parsha which I learned perfectly, and then figured out it was the wrong one! So let me start again. NEXT week's parsha is Ki TAVO, THIS week's parsha is Ki TEITZEI.

This portion includes 74 of the Torah’s 613 commandments. One of the commandments that stood out to me, talks about a misbehaving child, who doesn’t listen to his parents, even after his parents tell him to listen. Therefore, they take him to the elders where he is stoned for not listening. Clearly in this society we don’t stone people. An example of a more appropriate punishment would be if I misused my phone, I would get it taken away for a certain amount of time. When I received this punishment, my siblings would learn from my mistake, and try not to make the same one.

Of the 613 commandments, only 2 of them specify an exact reward for following them. These two mitzvot are honoring your mother and father, which is not in this week’s parasha; and sending away the mother bird, which is in this week’s parsha. Sending away the mother bird refers to when a hunter wants to take the young, he must first shoo away the mother. In this law, Hashem is trying to remind us that it is animal instinct to love and care for one’s young. He is also trying to tell us to be kind and not make the mother suffer by watching her young be taken. Even though most of us don’t observe this law today, we still have to be sensitive to all of Hashem’s creations, and show all creatures the respect they deserve.

I’ve learned how to treat people the way they want to be treated during my summers at Camp Barney. Through experiences at Camp Barney, I’ve learned to listen to people and work with them, as well as how to be a good roommate. I’m so grateful for the opportunity to have had many summers there, and friendships that will last a lifetime.

The privilege of Jewish summer camp is one that I would like to share with as many people as possible. Therefore, for my bat mitzvah project, I have chosen to raise money for One Happy Camper, a charity whose mission is to build a strong Jewish future through transformative Jewish summers. I will also be contributing a portion of my Bat Mitzvah money to One Happy Camper.





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Parashat Shoftim - Do The Right Thing

written by: Yael Mainzer, Grade 5

September 9, 2016
6 Elul 5776

In this week’s parasha, Shoftim, Bnei Yisrael are given many laws related to courts and judges. The judges who are chosen are told to be fair.  We are instructed to pursue justice. This parasha is about doing the right thing.

Towards the end of the parasha, we read the following pasuk:

כִּֽי־תָצ֣וּר אֶל־עִיר֩ יָמִ֨ים רַבִּ֜ים לְהִלָּחֵ֧ם עָלֶ֣יהָ לְתָפְשָׂ֗הּ לֹֽא־תַשְׁחִ֤ית אֶת־עֵצָהּ֙ לִנְדֹּ֤חַ עָלָיו֙ גַּרְזֶ֔ן כִּ֚י מִמֶּ֣נּוּ תֹאכֵ֔ל וְאֹת֖וֹ לֹ֣א תִכְרֹ֑ת כִּ֤י הָֽאָדָם֙ עֵ֣ץ הַשָּׂדֶ֔ה לָבֹ֥א מִפָּנֶ֖יךָ בַּמָּצֽוֹר:

When you besiege a city for many days to wage war against it to capture it, you shall not destroy its trees by wielding an ax against them, for you may eat from them, but you shall not cut them down. Is the tree of the field a man, to go into the siege before you?  (Devarim 20:19)

This pasuk talks about how if you go to war, you shouldn’t cut down any of your enemy’s fruit trees.  The war is not with the trees.  The fruit can be helpful.  If you cut down the fruit trees, there would be less food.  If you waste all of the trees and the fruit, you won’t have any for a long time.  Trees take a long time to grow and to grow fruit.  Cutting down the fruit trees would be wasteful.  Cutting down the fruit trees, even during a war, would not be the right thing to do.

This relates to life today because we should not waste anything that could be useful. 

Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch, (1808–1888, Germany) explains in very strong language that “lo tashchit,”  “do not destroy,” is a warning to human beings not to misuse the world that G-d has given us.

This pasuk teaches us not to waste anything.  Even things that you don’t need now, but might need in the future.  Taking care of the Earth is doing the right thing.

Shabbbat Shalom.





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